In regard to taking a chance on ourselves, most of our fears essentially boil down to being afraid of failing in public. And there is some validity here. I don't think we should do away with this fear entirely, pretending for even a moment that we could.
If my dream were a woman, would she be into me? Would she find me attractive? Or would I come off as some clingy, cloying loser, desperately trying to get her attention by any means possible?
What does adventure look like in a world that has largely been explored? Today, when we have questions, it’s because we don’t know; in the past, because no one knew. That’s a very different world. And today I ask…is the world really at our fingertips if everything is already in arm’s reach? It may be...
I want you to answer this question honestly: What’s the weather like today? Being the year 2025, there’s a chance you reached for your phone just now. That was me the other day. Standing in my living room just 2 steps from the door, wondering what the weather was like outside. But I didn’t open...
I think that in many ways “talent” is an adolescent idea that we unknowingly carry with us into adulthood, failing to question its worth or validity ever again.
I think that in many ways “talent” is an adolescent idea that we unknowingly carry with us into adulthood, failing to question its worth or validity ever again.
The smaller thing that you will actually do is often worth more than the larger thing that you’ll only think of doing. At a first pass, this seems rather simple and obvious. But therein lies another lesson—the most powerful notions are often the ones that lack the complexity to be anything else. As the saying...
On Suffering, Meaning, and the Path to Paradise I often wonder how I should begin when writing to a stranger. So much of what makes our lived experience so deep is in the stories that we carry with us, whether our own or that of others. And so much of what makes conversation so meaningful...
Spirituality is not about the apprehending of facts or anything that can be known to be true. Spirituality is about changing the way in which we attend to the world. And likewise, the very world that presents itself to us, in the first place. Spirituality is not about gaining knowledge of the world, but about...
Your biggest problems and deepest fears all have one thing in common: they feel incredibly real to you, right now. This is part of what makes them problems and fears, to begin with. But this happens to be both the lock on your prison cell, and the key to your freedom.